Is it really possible to be the kind of woman men adore? Does a man really believe that a woman can possess the capacity to attract him so much that he will never want to leave?
There are a lot of articles, tips, videos and instructions on becoming the woman men adore. The motivation behind this is the fact that women have been struggling in their relationships because they don’t understand men at all. Furthermore, women keep trying to understand men from a woman’s perspective which has never solved the issue.
While I agree with the misconception of women about men in relationship, I also believe that people tend to go extreme in this issue.
Men don’t all think the same way. Yes, we all have logic in our brains but what we adore in women differs. I read in one blog that men like women that are confident. Maybe some men do, but I know others who would feel irritated by the fact that their woman was confident. Trying to understand men is always a daunting task and that’s because most men don’t know what they want or
what they are supposed to do in a relationship.
Trying to make woman work towards being loved by a man is a burden. Both parties should work towards improving themselves and making each other happy. No matter how nasty and irritating a man or woman might seem, everyone is special and no one was created with a problem.
There is a saying that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. One man’s meat is another man’s poison. I have a friend whose wife is very bossy. She believes that she knows it all and tends to do everything in the house to portray that fact. My friend is a gentle person and loves his wife so much that I was astonished when he told me that his wife is his world.
A woman should complement a man in every area of his life. For a woman to be adored by men she has to be herself and decide what she wants to be and then look for a man who appreciates her for who she is and will love her.
So what do you think about this issue?
About the author: Ikechi Awazie is a freelance writer, blogger and the creator of Be a Light to the World (www.awazieikechi.com) where he loudly declares that every man can make a difference in this world. You can follow him on Twitter.(www.twitter.com/ikechiawazie)
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This article was first published on 17th October 2014 and updated on October 18th, 2014 at 2:56 pm
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Is it really possible to be the kind of woman men adore? Does a man really believe that a woman can possess the capacity to attract him so much that he will never want to leave?
There are a lot of articles, tips, videos and instructions on becoming the woman men adore. The motivation behind this is the fact that women have been struggling in their relationships because they don’t understand men at all. Furthermore, women keep trying to understand men from a woman’s perspective which has never solved the issue.
While I agree with the misconception of women about men in relationship, I also believe that people tend to go extreme in this issue.
Men don’t all think the same way. Yes, we all have logic in our brains but what we adore in women differs. I read in one blog that men like women that are confident. Maybe some men do, but I know others who would feel irritated by the fact that their woman was confident. Trying to understand men is always a daunting task and that’s because most men don’t know what they want or what they are supposed to do in a relationship.
Trying to make woman work towards being loved by a man is a burden. Both parties should work towards improving themselves and making each other happy. No matter how nasty and irritating a man or woman might seem, everyone is special and no one was created with a problem.
There is a saying that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. One man’s meat is another man’s poison. I have a friend whose wife is very bossy. She believes that she knows it all and tends to do everything in the house to portray that fact. My friend is a gentle person and loves his wife so much that I was astonished when he told me that his wife is his world.
A woman should complement a man in every area of his life. For a woman to be adored by men she has to be herself and decide what she wants to be and then look for a man who appreciates her for who she is and will love her.
So what do you think about this issue?
About the author: Ikechi Awazie is a freelance writer, blogger and the creator of Be a Light to the World (www.awazieikechi.com) where he loudly declares that every man can make a difference in this world. You can follow him on Twitter.(www.twitter.com/ikechiawazie)
A woman should complement a man in every area of his life. For a woman to be adored by men she has to be herself and decide what she wants to be and then look for a man who appreciates her for who she is and will love her.
This is preferable to changing your personality every few month…