A lot of Nigerians, or generally Africans, think therapy is not necessary. Therapy is like having a guide who helps you navigate through life’s challenges. It is an avenue to talk to someone called a therapist. They’re trained to understand how people think and feel. The therapist listens to you carefully without judging you. They help you figure out why you feel the way you do and what you can do about it. It’s like having a supportive friend who knows exactly what to say to help you feel better.
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Benefits of Therapy
Sometimes, life can feel heavy, and it’s hard to see a way out. Therapy can lighten that load. By talking about your worries and feelings, you can start to feel happier and more hopeful about the future.
Life is full of challenges, big and small. Therapy gives you tools to deal with these challenges. You learn strategies to manage stress, anxiety, or sadness. These skills can make a big difference in how you handle tough situations.
Good relationships are important for our happiness. Therapy can help you communicate better with others. You learn how to express yourself clearly and listen to others without getting upset. This can strengthen your relationships with family, friends, and partners.
Sometimes, we doubt ourselves or feel not good enough. It helps you understand why you feel this way. As you learn more about yourself, you start to see your strengths and worth. This can boost your confidence and self-esteem.
Life is full of ups and downs. Therapy prepares you to deal with the downs. Whether it’s a breakup, job loss, or other tough times, therapy gives you support and guidance to get through it.
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When You Need Therapy
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Feeling Sad or Worried a Lot
It’s normal to feel sad or worried sometimes, but if these feelings stick around for a long time and stop you from enjoying life, therapy can help.
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Struggling with Relationships
Relationships can be complicated. If you’re having problems with friends, family, or your partner, therapy can provide a safe space to work through these issues.
Big changes like moving to a new place, changing jobs, or dealing with a loss can be overwhelming. It can help you cope with these transitions and adjust to your new reality.
Trauma is a deeply distressing or disturbing experience. If you’ve been through something traumatic like an accident, abuse, or loss of a loved one, therapy can help you heal from the pain and move forward.
Sometimes, life feels like it’s on hold. If you’re struggling to make decisions, feeling lost, or not moving forward in life, therapy can provide clarity and direction.
Mental health issues can sometimes show up as physical symptoms like headaches, stomachaches, or fatigue. If you’re experiencing unexplained physical problems, therapy can help you understand and address the underlying mental health issues.
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Final Thoughts
Therapy is not just for people with serious mental health problems. It’s for anyone who wants to feel better, live happier, and be fulfilled. Asking for help is a sign of strength, not weakness. If you’re struggling, therapy can provide the support, guidance, and tools you need to overcome your challenges and thrive. Don’t hesitate to reach out and take care of your mental health. You deserve to feel happy and fulfilled, and therapy can help you get there.
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This article was first published on 8th April 2024 and updated on April 11th, 2024 at 5:01 pm
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Chidiogo Shalom Akaelu holds a degree in English and Literary Studies, from the University of Nigeria. She is a freelance writer, editor and founder of Loana Press, a budding online publishing outlet.
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