There’s no doubt a person’s physical appearance is the first thing people notice that could instantly make them get attracted. However, your outward look is not all it takes as there is much more to attraction than that. If you’re going to hold someone’s attention for long then it will greatly depend on your behavior when associating with them.
We all have our strengths and weaknesses, our individual awesome traits and flaws that make us who we are. So it’s important to recognize and harness the vital behaviors that could make you attractive to other people so as to keep your healthy relationships alive.
Below are 5 behaviors to imbibe that’ll make you effortlessly attractive:
Being attentive (good listener)
The ability to listen when people are talking to you makes your personality interesting and appealing as it instantly connects you with them. People like to feel they are been heard and understood, plus when you’re attentive it shows that what he/she is saying is meaningful, and significant to you which in turn creates a bond of trust. With so many distractions like our phones or personal issues, being able to be completely engaged in another person’s conversation is a behavior quality that’s remarkable.
Kindness
Showing a selfless and thoughtful behavior is another incredible quality one can have. When you’re not self-centered, selfish or make everything about you, and you show kindness, give, and are considerate of others, people will be drawn to you because of the positive energy you emit.
Smiling
It’s been said that smiling releases endorphins and serotonin in a person’s body which heightens one’s mood and gives a positive vibe. Smiling also improves the mood of people around you as they can feel a strong sense of positivity with you and would want to associate with those cheerful feelings.
Laughter
Laughing has also been said to be the best medicine for the soul. It’s another act that releases endorphins and a positive feeling which is healthy for both physical, emotional and mental health. Laughter also lowers stress levels. People are instantly drawn to those who like to laugh and can make them laugh. Laughing has the ability to provide them with an instant feel-good sensation throughout their entire body and creates a bond of understanding between you and them.
Confidence
This behavior is highly important both personally and professionally as we’ve often heard that confidence is key. Being confident in yourself, your abilities, your appearance, and your work can make people gravitate towards you. Once there’s a vibe that you don’t believe in yourself, you suddenly become unappealing and might even make people uncomfortable when interacting with you. But when you’re self-assured and exhibit confidence, people tend to find you more desirable.
Being punctual
Being on time is also a behavior that most people take for granted. It might be a minor act but with massive implications. Being on time shows you can prioritize, you have personal principles and it also signifies that you have value in the way you treat others. When you keep to time it shows people you respect them and that you can keep to commitments as well as promises. On the other hand, if you’re always late for affairs you’re proving that they are not a priority and that their time is not really of any importance to you. People will not want to be associated with anyone they think doesn’t respect their time, and that’s why time punctuality is paramount in the corporate world as it shows you have good management skills plus people skills as well.
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This article was first published on 17th October 2017
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Becky Onoise is a psychologist, chocolate junkie, and puppy lover. A writer who is sorry... not sorry about correcting your grammar. She's a word enthusiast and aims to achieve her goals. Instagram handle @mz_berkey
Comments (2)
I think being accommodative and tolerant cannot be eliminated. Abi?
thanks for the reply. I think it’s part of being kind