Archives Tag: HeartBreak
Personal Development Relationships
Relationship: How To Deal With The Pain Of Heartbreak
April 19, 2022
Almost everyone has been served this breakfast called “Heartbreak”. Many get over it as soon as they got into it, others take some time before they move on, while a select few give so much of themselves to the relationship that they lose themselves in the process of losing the relationship. Read more about … Continue reading Relationship: How To Deal With The Pain Of Heartbreak
Why Crying is Good For You
April 19, 2022
Think about it, the first thing you did when you were born was to cry. And if you didn’t, everyone would have been worried to death; some babies are even spanked or pinched so that they would. Now, why do you think that is? After delivery, the cry helps the baby take in some air … Continue reading Why Crying is Good For You
By beckonoise
5 Mistakes to Avoid After a Breakup
April 19, 2022
Breakups can be awful. I remember thinking sometime last year that it was good to be married and finally free from the trauma and torture that is breaking up after dating someone you truly love (a divorce is a different animal) and thought you would share forever with. You meet someone, you’re sure he or … Continue reading 5 Mistakes to Avoid After a Breakup
By jehonwa
Are You Making the Same Mistakes in Your Relationships?
April 19, 2022
If your life seems to be an endless string of failed relationships, you should take time out to reflect. One of the first things I learnt about getting life back on track post-breakup is accessing the relationship honestly. When the therapeutic crying’s done and the healing the tubs of ice-cream have been consumed, there should … Continue reading Are You Making the Same Mistakes in Your Relationships?
By jehonwa
How to Let Go of a Past Relationship
April 19, 2022
Time, they say, heals all wounds and this is also applicable to relationships. Getting over someone that has been part of you for quite some time can be difficult, but you just have to stay strong and face reality. Learning to let go and make peace with things you cannot change is crucial. Here are some … Continue reading How to Let Go of a Past Relationship
FAMILY LIFESTYLE Relationships Stuff Tip of the Day
Are You Still in Love?
April 19, 2022
By Adebola Fauzziyah Oreagba Can people who once claimed to be in love eventually fall out of love? Some will say “NO, people who are sincerely in love cannot fall out of love. If they do, then they were probably never in love.” I used to think so too, until recently when I started hearing … Continue reading Are You Still in Love?
By guestpost
Poem of the Week: The Unforgiven
April 19, 2022
By Nehi Igbinijesu  Sometimes it’s too late To take back- to apologize Oftentimes it’s not fate Just a heart apostatized Quickly- it would have won Profuse- good it would have done Yet you let the frowns demur Upset you muted telly lore What grief grudge grumpily gotten That keeps frozen the unforgiven A tale … Continue reading Poem of the Week: The Unforgiven
By nehijesu
Poem of the Week: Smoke in My Eyes
April 19, 2022
By Nehi Igbinijesu  Readily I cry sore Staring with pepper Perturbing both eyes In tears of blood streaming Snaking down amidst many lies Hands gently smooching My uneasy head compelling To end the brittle knottings Of dried palm leaves here and there Bitten once And twice I cried By a bug called love Of … Continue reading Poem of the Week: Smoke in My Eyes
By nehijesu
Poem of the Week: Conversation with Dooshima
April 19, 2022
 By Nehi Igbinijesu Achelenu: So she met another one In the wake I thought, I loved She could look straight no longer Into eyes that once Made soul and heart wonder For what it was worth She did not even linger Now fight me alone The pointings of many fingers The taste of … Continue reading Poem of the Week: Conversation with Dooshima
By jehonwa
Love In Hard Places…
April 19, 2022
It was a beautiful night, everything was perfect and sweet, yet it beats me as to how everything turned sour. In one split second we went from expressing love to expressing hurt, from understanding what we shared to misunderstanding what was said. I wince at the disgust of it all, beat myself up over and over All I’ve ever had in my heart is love for him, value for what we shared.