The Art Of Persuasion
There is one trait that the typical Nigerian is packed with. The hatred for being told what to do! This tendency often multiplies when a leader, be it at the home front, office or social group intends to stir things in a new direction. The outcome is most times, unpleasant- putting it mildly. So, are […]
The Speech Bender: 5 Tips on Public Speaking
One thing Nigerians have been blessed with is the zest and willpower to talk- and talk- and talk. Everyone has something to say about everything; especially when they converge at recreational centers, buses and most of all, newspaper stands. What is interesting to note is the transformation that occurs when you set up a podium […]
CODE NAME: CLEANER
In Nigeria, some occupations can be a huge source of pride. Some folks would even bite your head off for forgetting to add it as a title when addressing them. These include “Doctor”, “Barrister”, and “Engineer”. The other end of the scale are those occupations that some would rather die than letting friends and relatives […]
5 Important Telephone Ethics
Over the last two decades, a number of things have changed in Nigeria. One of these, I’m sure you’d agree, is the mobile phone. Yes, before the new millennium, we had mobile phones- only as mobile as the length of their wires! That’s right! The telephones. But what’s interesting to observe is the amount of […]
The Benefits of Giving Up
All across Nigeria, the wind of the economic clime is blowing. For some, it feels like a little turbulence. For others, it appears to be a hurricane sweeping everything into ruins. In these challenging times, an age long phrase has been frequently administered to keep people going, “Don’t give up”. True, those words have proved […]
Can We Talk About Whatsapp Groups?
The advent of the internet has brought about speed and convenience in virtually every aspect of our lives. The Nigerian space has been no small beneficiary. Our unexplainable drive to churn out what we commonly call “Associations” or when we want to sound unique, “Progressive Unions”, has always left members exhausted or even frustrated about […]
How to Make Your Doctor Cry
In Nigeria, the doctor is that one person almost everyone sees as invincible. In fact, having one as a member of your family is like a hydra-headed trophy. From making illnesses virtually disappear, to saving lives; these group of people are seen as demi-gods. Contrary to what you might think, there are things you do […]
For The Woman With No Child
In the “Nigerian Female Life Games”, there are two major hurdles that every woman is expected to cross in order to be regarded as successful. All other trophies are considered inconsequential without these two which have somehow been concluded to be the bedrock of a woman’s existence. The first trophy a woman is expected to […]
How to Lead Your Boss
One of the best storytellers in our present day is the Nigerian employee. Just start off a conversation about the weather and you might be swept away by the dam of tales that will come gushing out. Of course the lead character and chief antagonist is none other than ‘MY BOSS’. It makes me wonder, […]
How to Get the Best Out of Your Staff
There seems to be a general complaint about employees in Nigeria. Be it domestic or corporate, employers say hiring committed or even honest people is almost a mirage nowadays. If this is true, then it wouldn’t be inaccurate to say that we are officially in trouble! But before we get out our cans of “staffticides”, […]
What Not to Do When On A Condolence Visit
It’s common knowledge that the loss of a loved one can be very heartbreaking. That’s why when we learn that a friend, colleague, or acquaintance has been bereaved, we feel the need to do something. As Nigerians, most times, we pay a visit. The problem however, is that we can be quite unsure of what […]
6 Ways to Stay Sane When Your Children are Driving You Crazy
Children are generally considered a gift. However, not long after this gift arrives comes the part everyone dreads – Care. Anyone who has had reason to look after children will agree that those cute little faces seem to have the innate ability to drive you nuts! Here are some tips to help you cope if […]