Archives Tag: Marriage
In Relationships, Enthusiasm is Key
April 19, 2022
Happiness is a state of mind that most of us prefer, so some of our actions and decisions are made to make us happy. Happiness can be extreme, at the news of success, or can be modest, from an event, from certain persons, or from feelings. Happiness is different from the state of ‘not being … Continue reading In Relationships, Enthusiasm is Key
VIRGINITY: Till Marriage or Till Love?
April 19, 2022
By Bernice Alhassan. The issue of keeping one’s virginity till marriage has become a very controversial one in recent times; especially among ladies. For the guys, nobody seems to care much. After all, they say it’s a man’s world. Unfortunately, it is one of the several values which seem to be fading real fast. Growing … Continue reading VIRGINITY: Till Marriage or Till Love?
The Woman In Your Life.
April 19, 2022
The woman in your life…very well expressed…Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry her with these facts as well. Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are; who is earning almost as much as you do.
Men I’ve Loved Before: Demystifying “The One”
April 19, 2022
I was recently reminded of the concept of “The One” when I found an old, long-forgotten list I had titled “Things I Worry About When I Think of My Upcoming Nuptials”. Right there, at Number 6, I’d written: “I’ll never meet The One, ever. It’s over. This is it. Boo hoo hoo.”
By jehonwa
Marrying Later, Marrying Smarter
April 19, 2022
I always wanted to get married at 22. To this day I’m not sure exactly why, but the idea of being a beautiful young bride – and getting childbearing out of the way early – greatly appealed to me. Now, of course, I’m grateful I didn’t marry at 22, but I also find myself wondering what kind of wife I would have made at that age.
Are You The Marrying Kind of Woman?
April 19, 2022
Today I awoke to an interesting chat discussion about two separate ladies; the first got jilted after an 8-year-long relationship and was left penniless and alone – after clinging on for 8 years (she is obviously bitter and has been unable to pick up the pieces and move on).
JUST BEFORE YOU TIE THE KNOT…
April 19, 2022
Initially, I was a bit skeptical about writing on this topic because I’m really young and totally not ready to marry in the nearest future. However, overtime I’ve observed some of my young friends rush into marriage just for the pride of having a cute ring on the fourth finger and being addressed as “Mrs”. Within a few years, the euphoria wears off and they realize he/she was not the one.
Letter to My Friend, the Bride
April 19, 2022
Girlfriend, I’m so thrilled that you’re getting married, and I absolutely must share with you some things I knew before I got married, and a few others things I wish someone had told me before I got married.
There Goes the Bride
April 19, 2022
A broken engagement is better than a broken marriage. I’ve heard those words for as long as I can remember, and it never once crossed my mind that they would have anything to do with me; definitely not when I first set eyes on your handsome face.
By jehonwa
For All The Men: From A Father To His Son
April 19, 2022
I was touched by the words in the letter below. In 1971, future-U.S. president Ronald Reagan wrote to his 26-year-old son Michael, just before he got married. It made me realize one thing in life, no matter how great or successful you are as a man, raising a happy home is paramount in life. Though … Continue reading For All The Men: From A Father To His Son
By kobe
What’s Love Got To Do With It?
April 19, 2022
By Joy Ehonwa I’ve always thought about marriage a lot. Not about getting married or having a wedding, but about this thing called marriage. I wondered how it worked, and if it really was the way it had been presented to us. A few days ago I was at the salon and a really sour-faced … Continue reading What’s Love Got To Do With It?
By loyigah
The One Thing That Will Make Your Relationship Last
April 19, 2022
With marriages breaking up these days and tales of infidelity all around us, I can’t help but wonder what hope there is for single ones. Does it make sense getting married? Or even falling in love? With one new story of spousal abuse, or a couple parting ways after 5 years of marriage, I had … Continue reading The One Thing That Will Make Your Relationship Last
By loyigah
Marriage: I Do or I Shouldn’t
April 19, 2022
Every weekend in Nigeria, if you are not in one wedding or two or even three, you are driving past a car with ribbons or seeing your neighbours in their own tailored version of the aso-ebi. Most of the weddings today are very extravagant. Champagne flowing, DJ spinning on the wheels of steel and after … Continue reading Marriage: I Do or I Shouldn’t
By delebe
FIVE SECRETS OF ‘HAPPILY EVER AFTER’.
April 19, 2022
Even with all the sad tales, there are still people who have been together for decades, and they’re not just putting up with each other; they have learnt the things that make it possible to spend the rest of their lives, happily, with only one person. Happily Ever After, which so many people label a myth, is actually a reality for some.
By loyigah