How To Keep Your Man Pt. 1

Well, as funny as this may sound, you can never please everybody or anybody, especially men. I’m not trying to be a feminist, considering the fact that I am a typical Yoruba girl and know we live in a man’s world. but like my mother would always say, “Kemi your father thinks he is the head of this family, not knowing that am the neck and without me his head can’t move, shio…” The point is we females actually have the only say if we want to. The truth of this article is that no matter how hard you try you can only really try. You may succeed if cautious and determined, but nothing is certain. Here are some tips I believe are positive ways to keep your man tied and glued to you on a regular basis: 1. Always give him attention: Irrespective of how busy you are, your calls, text messages, touch and caresses, including public display of affection in some cases, always make your man feel appreciated. Don’t overdo it though. That’s guaranteed to turn him off immediately and make it seem like your life revolves around him and him alone.

  2. Do things that you know make him happy: Even if you hate some things he likes just endure for his sake. From those confusing football matches to those loud parties with “the boys”, become a part of his world, and watch his fondness for you grow and deepen.  

  3. Be unpredictable: I know right??? How does that work? Well here is the thing, nobody likes people that are boring and do the same routine daily, and your man is no exception. No guy wants to be tied to that. Try looking different, acting different and suggesting different ideas you wouldn’t suggest on a normal day.

  Stay tuned to Connect Nigeria for Part 2! Also if you have any suggestion about what you as a man or lady think we all should know about “How To Keep Your Man” please drop it as a comment and rest assured it would be featured.     About The Writer: Kemi Adewale is a Microbiologist by day, and a fiction writer by night. She is very passionate about telling people’s stories and commenting on issues happening in her social sphere.